Recently, when I was in my trip to Paris and London for 8 days with my family, We were at one point talking about how slouching can fuck up your back while eating breakfast at London and my Brother asked me a question:
Brother: Your girl sometimes slouches, does she still do that?
Legion: No, she doesn’t. There has been one time I have to tell her to keep her back straight and that the last thing I want is to marry a hunchback.
Brother: (sarcastically) Wow, you must be a really good BF to say that.
Legion: Hey, it’s the truth man. I don’t want her to fuck up her back. It motivated her to be more careful of her posture. Honestly is love
(My Mother joined in and responded to what my Brother said and agreeing with what I said)
Mother: I agree with him. You have to always be honest and he is not saying anything wrong. He is only looking out for her. Like he said, honestly is love.
After this conversation, my Brother agreed with my actions and know that even though the comment I said was supposedly fucked up, I was still making my point across and watching over my girl, otherwise I wouldn’t be a good boyfriend for not saying something about her posture for her health and for myself (No man wants to fuck a hunchback you know).
The point of sharing this is to show you that no matter how bad is it or if you feel that your girl’s feelings would get hurt, you should always be honest with her. I’m not saying to be a dick but get your point across the way I did. The hunchback comment has hurt my girl’s feelings but she got the point that she must watch her posture not only for her health but for me as well.
Now you might be asking, “What if she complains about you being honest?”, Well the solution to that is simple. Tell her the following:
What do you prefer? Lie to you or tell you the truth? You can’t have both.
These are what I have always said to my girl and other women I have met over the years. Just by saying those, you made her realize that she is being dumb by practically saying to you not to tell her the truth and lying to her is only going to hurt her more, So you should have no excuse. So here are the 3 things you should always remember:
- Be honest no matter how hurtful it is.
- Let her know that you will always be honest.
- Honestly is love. By being honest, it shows her how much you love her.
So if your girl asks, “How do I look in the dress”, and she looks fat in it. Tell her that she don’t look good and if she asks why, tell her she looks fat in it.
If your girl asks, “How was the blowjob?”, and the blowjob was terrible, tell her that it sucked (Pun intended).
If your girl asks if she can be with a guy friend, tell the bitch no and that the guy is only wanting to fuck her.
I think by now you get the point. So remember, Honestly is love.
Till next time,