Do you treat your girlfriend/wife as your best friend or as your lover?
I ask this because believe it or not there has been relationships I have seen where it doesn’t even look like a relationship and it looks more like a friendship.
I understand that it’s awesome that you consider your girl as your best friend since both of you have a lot in common whether if it’s video games, anime, TV shows, and other hobbies it may be. It’s very important in a good relationship but the word “best friend” is the problem here. She is not your friend, she is your lover. Last time I checked friends don’t fuck unless they are fuck buddies.
If you treat your girl like a friend, then she will feel like she is your friend more then a lover. You can’t expect a passionate relationship if there is no sexual energy between the two of you. What’s the point in even being in a romantic relationship if there’s no passion or sexual chemistry when you act like friends instead of lovers.
Let me give a you my relationship for example: My girlfriend and I have a lot in common and one of them is watching anime. We would watch anime together but of course there would be moments we would be making out or I would make her watch the show with me in just her lingerie.
This is just one of many examples I could give you that shows that sexual chemistry should always be there 24/7. Consider sexual chemistry as your friend and constant companion. Now, you don’t need to be fucking like rabbits to do that unless you to, I know I do. Anyway, sexual chemistry is a MUST in a healthy relationship otherwise she will look at you as a friend since you are treating her like one.
Here are some examples to keep the sexual chemistry present at all times:
- Grab her tits or ass whenever you want to.
- Smack her ass in public.
- Sexual innuendos.
- Perverted jokes.
- Intense eye contact.
- Touching and grabbing her whenever you want to.
- Whisper naughty things to her ear.
- Compliment on a body part you like about her.
That list should give you an idea to keep the sexual chemistry of your relationship strong. Remember, she is your lover and you should be treating her as one. Besides, having a girl that is like a best friend and that you can fuck as much as you want to is the best of both worlds.